Opinion: Why An Old Age Home Is Not Always A Bad Option For Senior Citizens
In India, living in old age homes was once stigmatised, but modernisation & migration have increased the number of elderly parents without support. Specialised old age homes are now showing a demand.
By Dr Geetanjali Chopra
The concept of the elderly parents in families seeking refuge in old age homes in the later stages of their life carries a stigma in India. Our country has always taken pride in a deeply ingrained tradition of living together with elders, cherishing their wisdom and revering their presence. Respect for elders is not just a cultural norm, but a way of life, worn into the fabric of society. However, as the winds of modernisation swept across the country, and traditional family structures began to undergo a paradigm shift, it started to impact the care and well-being of senior citizens.
With the number of nuclear families growing, many parts of India are witnessing a peculiar problem — elderly parents living without much support as their grown-up children are working abroad, or in different cities or towns. In Kerala, for example, where a steady flow of outward migration of the younger workforce is seen, it is estimated that there will be 35 people aged over 60 for every 100 people of the working-age by the year 2030, according to government figures.
It is not always feasible for the children to take their parents along — sometimes due to visa and other logistical issues and sometimes due to the very fact that the senior citizens themselves don’t want to be completely uprooted at the fag of their lives.
As a result, the elderly people in some parts of the country are increasingly opting to move into specialised facilities to spend their retired life.
It’s no longer a taboo to stay in an old age home. On the contrary, the specialised facilities are considered a better option, provided they ensure the residents will be taken care of in case of an emergency or other such situation.
Growing Demand For Senior Housing
Recognising the importance of honouring the elderly and providing them with dignified and compassionate support, various initiatives and innovations have begun to gain traction across the nation. From state-of-the-art amenities to various non-governmental organisations (NGOs) offering free old age home facilities tailored to the unique needs of seniors, the options for elder care have expanded.
This growing demand is demonstrably real, as evidenced by a Colliers survey. The survey estimates a current surge in demand for senior housing, with figures ranging from 1.8 to 2 million units across India. Projections suggest this demand will reach 3 million units within the next five to six years.
This significant growth indicates not only the changing demographics of India but also a fundamental shift in the preferences of seniors themselves. The move towards shelter homes signifies a growing desire for social engagement within a secure and supportive environment.
A recent study in the Indian Journal of Community Medicine sheds light on how perceptions of old-age homes evolve. Although many residents initially felt pressured to enter these facilities, the research suggests a positive shift, with satisfaction taking hold during their stay.
However, a lingering desire to live with family remains for a significant portion (24%). The study also highlights the financial realities of senior care, revealing that insurance is the primary source of support for 31% of residents. This underscores the critical role of financial planning, with additional contributions coming from children, personal savings, and pensions.
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What All Shelter Homes Must Offer To Senior Citizens
Nothing can be compared to the joy and comfort of staying with family and in your own homes. Hence, choosing an old age home will always be a compromise and the second option, even though that would be a more practical one.
Therefore, it becomes an added responsibility for the shelters to make the stay comfortable for the elderly residents who must feel wanted, pampered, and safe.
Many shelter homes are now coming up that offer several benefits for elderly individuals, particularly those facing challenges living independently. These facilities prioritise safety and security, providing 24/7 supervision and ensuring timely medical attention in emergencies.
On-site medical care or partnerships with hospitals address the specific needs of seniors, especially those with chronic health conditions.
Shelter homes combat social isolation, a common concern for elders, by fostering a sense of community and encouraging peer interaction. This social connection can significantly reduce feelings of loneliness and depression.
Additionally, some shelter homes offer subsidised or free accommodation and meals, providing much-needed financial relief for seniors or their families.
Ultimately, shelter homes must create a safe and supportive environment for elderly residents, bringing peace of mind to their loved ones.
The Challenges
It is important to acknowledge the concerns surrounding shelter homes. Overcrowding, lack of hygiene, and inadequate facilities can be a reality in some cases.
To ensure quality care, families must research and carefully choose reputable homes that prioritise resident well-being.
Additionally, government regulations and regular inspections are essential to maintain high standards.
Social connection is an essential pillar of mental and emotional well-being for older adults. As families become more geographically dispersed or grapple with their demanding schedules, elderly individuals can face social isolation. This lack of interaction can lead to feelings of loneliness and even spiral into depression.
For many seniors, finding companionship with peers is crucial. Sharing experiences, laughter, and conversation with those who understand the joys and challenges of later life fosters a sense of belonging and purpose.
Shelter homes are not a replacement for loving families. The decision to reside in a shelter home should be a personal one, carefully considered by the senior themself. By fostering open communication and understanding the spectrum of senior care options available, families can empower their loved ones to make informed choices that promote their well-being and dignity.
The author is the founder and president of Wishes and Blessings NGO.
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