Filmmaker and producer Kiran Rao has always been known for her independent spirit and creative vision. In a candid conversation, she reflected on her marriage to Bollywood superstar Aamir Khan, their journey together, and how she navigated the challenges of being married to one of India's most celebrated actors.
Sharing insights into their relationship, creative collaborations, and the dynamics of their blended family, Kiran spoke openly about her experiences—offering a heartfelt glimpse into the personal and professional evolution that shaped her path.
Kiran Rao on Her Parents’ Reaction to Marrying Aamir Khan
When Kiran decided to marry Aamir Khan, her parents were taken aback by her choice. Speaking about their initial reaction, she revealed:
"It was a shocker for them," she admitted in an interview with ANI.
"They were taken aback. In their eyes, I had a lot of promise. I was someone who wanted to do a lot of things, and they were worried that I might be overshadowed by Aamir's larger-than-life persona."
As one of Bollywood’s biggest stars, Aamir’s immense fame was something that Kiran had to adapt to. However, what gave her comfort was his unwavering support for her individuality.
Kiran Rao on Aamir Khan’s ‘Greatest Thing’
One of the most important aspects of their relationship, according to Kiran, was Aamir’s respect for her independence.
"Aamir has never expected me to be a certain way. He has always been happy for me to be myself, and that's one of the greatest things about him," she shared.
Discussing the recent wedding of Aamir’s daughter, Ira Khan, to Nupur Shikhare, Kiran reflected on their strong family bond, which has remained intact even after their separation.
She has always shared a close relationship with Aamir’s children from his first marriage, Junaid and Ira, emphasizing the warmth and acceptance that define their family.
"His family is incredibly warm. So it happens quite organically," she said.
"His friends, who've known him since childhood, have become family. Once introduced to the family, those relationships continue to stay strong, even as individuals," she added.
For Kiran, the foundation of this family dynamic lies in acceptance and unconditional support.
"The family accepts you as a person, not just in a role," she explained.
Finding Her Own Identity Beyond Aamir Khan’s Fame
Being married to a superstar like Aamir Khan came with its own set of challenges. Kiran admitted that stepping out of his shadow was a journey in itself.
"When you marry someone incredibly famous, you do lose a part of your own identity," she confessed. "It took me a long time to find my own voice again."
For her, reclaiming her identity wasn’t just about public perception—it was also about personal fulfillment.
"It wasn't just about reclaiming my public identity, but also about personal terms. Aamir allowed me to grow into my own person, to evolve, and it was because of him that I found the courage to say, 'I love you, I love this family, but I need to be on my own."
Even after their separation in 2021, Kiran and Aamir have continued to share a respectful and supportive relationship, both in their personal lives and professional collaborations.
Kiran Rao and Aamir Khan’s Continued Creative Partnership
Despite parting ways as a couple, Kiran and Aamir have maintained a strong creative partnership.
"We have been able to work together creatively. It shows maturity on both our parts. It's not always easy—creative work can get heated—but that's what makes the collaboration so fulfilling," Kiran explained.
Her production company, Kindling Pictures, has already made a mark with films like Lapata Ladies, while she continues to work with Aamir Khan Productions, underscoring their ongoing professional camaraderie.
"Aamir and I will always be there for each other," she concluded, reflecting on the balance they have found between family, career, and mutual respect.
Aamir Khan and Kiran Rao: A Relationship Beyond Marriage
Kiran Rao and Aamir Khan were married for over 15 years, having tied the knot in 2005. They welcomed their son, Azad Rao Khan, in 2011. However, in July 2021, the couple announced their separation, emphasising their desire to continue their individual journeys while co-parenting their son.
Despite their divorce, Kiran and Aamir have remained on amicable terms, continuing to support each other’s professional and personal endeavors, proving that some relationships transcend traditional definitions of marriage.
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