Shah Rukh Khan Shares He 'Cries A Lot' In His Bathroom Over Failures, Talks About How Success Can Be Isolating

Shah Rukh Khan shared his thoughts on handling failure, success, and the pressures of stardom during a session at the Global Freight Summit in Dubai on Tuesday.

Superstar Shah Rukh Khan shared his candid thoughts on handling failure, success, and the pressures of stardom during a session titled From Bollywood Superstardom to Business Success – Key Learnings On and Off Screen at the Global Freight Summit in Dubai on Tuesday. Speaking to an audience of industry professionals and fans, Khan reflected on his career trajectory, his personal philosophies, and the lessons he's learned over the years, including how he manages moments of despair. 

Shah Rukh Khan on failure

Khan, who has often been open about his personal struggles, admitted that he deals with disappointment in a very private way. "I cry a lot in my bathroom," he shared, describing how he allows himself a brief period of self-pity before moving on. "You can wallow in self-pity for just about that much time and then you have to believe that the world is not against you. Your film did not go wrong because of you or because the world is conspiring to destroy your work. You have to believe that you made it badly and then you have to move on," he added, underscoring his philosophy of resilience in the face of setbacks. 

The actor acknowledged that he is highly self-critical but stressed that he doesn't let his weaknesses show publicly. He believes that failure should not be blamed on external factors but seen as a learning opportunity. "One cannot blame life for failure," he said. "I try to recalibrate and come back." 

Shah Rukh Khan on success

Khan also discussed how success can sometimes be its own undoing. "You are so driven by success and that was my problem," he confessed. "Success can isolate you and lead to failure. While you are successful, you need to be aware that the world is changing around you. You need to look around, you can't be with blinkers on." 

The actor’s career has seen its fair share of ups and downs, especially before his resurgence in 2023 with three major hits: ‘Pathaan’, ‘Jawan’, and ‘Dunki’.  

Reflecting on his past, Khan remarked that a deep understanding of human emotions is key to connecting with audiences, and that his work should also mirror the times. "If you live in a time of strife, your product needs to give you a feeling of safety," he explained. "If you feel that you are anti-establishment, my movie needs to show me as a hero who takes on the world."