In the last 20 years, India has lost three times as many of its armed forces personnel in internal conflict as it did in the 1962 war against China. Six times as many members of the armed forces have died fighting in Kashmir, the North East and in central India (in what is called the Naxal areas) in this period than our losses in the Kargil war. More Indians have died in these places than in the 1962 and 1971 wars against Pakistan combined.

These are lives that have been sacrificed not for any external aggression but because the state is unable to come to terms with its own people. These deaths are the result of political failure and not war. The ability of our country to absorb this sacrifice of blood without any resistance makes it easy for India to continue with its actions in these three areas. There is no pressure on Indian governments to change their policy on internal conflict, whether it is succeeding or failing or just drifting along, because the continued deaths of soldiers and civilians are acceptable.

There has been no internal debate on what our recent masterstroke in Kashmir will mean for the armed forces who serve there and have been overseeing a sullen and discontented population for 30 years. A visit to Srinagar will show that the streets are patrolled by armed men from various parts of India who do not speak the local language and do not look like the local population. The paramilitaries walk the streets of Kashmir’s cities, while the army patrols the periphery.

These men in the cities are there to suppress the sentiment which expresses itself often through violence, because there is no other means of expressing it. Communications and the media have been throttled in Kashmir for years and this is not the first time that they have faced collective punishment through absolute blackout. The rest of India has no problem with this regular communications ban without necessarily giving thought to what its fallout is.

One reason and perhaps the biggest reason why this happens is the distance from the violence and the fact that most of us have no real stake in it. In America, there are usually about 100 members of their parliament (which is called Congress) who have served in the US military. America is the world’s most powerful military force and regularly and easily chooses to enter armed conflict — in Korea, Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan. However, it is a country that tends to be self-correcting and is able to exit conflicts because it has a high proportion of leaders who have themselves been soldiers. They are able to unemotionally weigh the real costs against the imaginary benefits. During and just after the Vietnam war, this figure of warrior-leaders was so high that about 3/4ths of all legislators were former soldiers.

In India this is not the case. The middle class has no interest in serving the army and corporate jobs and government service, particularly in the IAS and IPS, are preferred. The army and the paramilitary jawans are drawn mainly from the lower middle class and usually from the peasantry (it is the same in the case of Pakistan also). The media, which is drawn from the middle class, is just as removed from the violence.

What the armed forces do in various parts of India including Kashmir is valorised by the media. We journalists do not have any independence of mind to be able to look on what is happening through neutral eyes. That makes it possible for us to take sides and ignore reality.

It may surprise readers to know that it was the work of a Pakistani reporter that caused the world to look at atrocities in East Pakistan with seriousness. The reporter was Karachi’s Anthony Mascarenhas, whose writing for the British newspaper the Sunday Times published in June 1971. He exposed what the Pakistani army had been doing to its own civilians. It is just as difficult for Indian journalists to do this in Kashmir, the ‘Naxal belt’ and the North East because of the atmosphere we have created against our own people.

The reality is that all occupying armies, with armed men living far from home, and amid hostile populations, behave in the same way. This has not changed throughout history whether we look at Vietnam or Iraq or Sri Lanka. That is the nature of man and the higher blame for that must fall on the leadership of nations that put their armed forces through this trial, and on the populations that are willing to back it. Thousands will continue to perish.

The great wars against China and Pakistan are remembered in India's history books and our losses there are memorialised. But the drip-drip-drip of losses inside, much higher in volume, continues to bleed us without any effort to bandage or to examine the wound.

(The author is Executive Director of Amnesty International India and tweets at @aakar_amnesty)

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